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Bye Bye, POF!

I deleted my Plenty of Fish profile last night.

I feel like I found everything I was looking for and so much more. I no longer felt the need to keep it.

I made 2 best friends from the site. I met alot of different guys. I went on a few dates. One was GREAT! The others, not so much. The profile has completely and fully served its purpose. I wanted to see what else is out there, apart from my small little world. And I did. I met alot of interesting people, some creepy ones, and some that just downright disgusted me.

I even met a guy. A guy that will hopefully soon be my boyfriend…but I don’t want to jinx it. So you shall hear more about him within the next month or so. He is one of the main reasons why I deleted my profile.

I kept on getting at least 10 messages from guys every day, and I never replied to them anymore. I didn’t see the point. I found a guy that I want to be with. I made 2 best friends. What’s the point of going on more dates or meeting more people? I already have everything I want and more.

So goodbye POF. I won’t be needing you anymore. It was fun while it lasted. Thank you for all the experiences, entertaining conversations, and interesting people I’ve met. I would definitely recommend this site to anyone. Try it out. And my best piece of advice would be:

Give the guys a chance!

I would’ve never found my two best friends if I hadn’t replied to their messages, despite the fact that I wasn’t attracted to them. I know that online dating is a lot of window shopping, but try not to be so shallow. That guy that made you laugh or intrigued you with his profile, but wasn’t the best looking guy in the world. Give him a chance. What’s the worst that can happen?

POF Friends

I’ve met a lot of guys since I made my profile on POF. Some were great, some not so much, but I am so happy to say that I have made 2 amazing friends from it! They have been there for me through so much already. I never thought that I would make such great friends from a dating site, but I’m so glad that I did. And before you say it, they don’t bitch about being in the “Friend Zone.” They know that a friend is more dear to me than any boyfriend could ever be. My friends are my life, and they will always come before the guy I’m dating simply because they were there before him, and they’ll be there after him too. Unless a guy is trying to put a ring on it, my friends will always be more important to me.

So without any further a due, please meet my 2 best guy friends:

(Yes, I know that was corny. Don’t judge me. I’m excited, damn it.)

Spencer

I met Spencer within the first week of making my profile. Spencer is actually his last name, but he introduced himself to me as Spencer, so I’ve called him that ever since. I knew he was different from the first 5 minutes of talking to him because he said:

“You’re not gonna stop talking to me, are you?”

He called me out on something I have done to one too many guys. I talk to them, and then I “disappear” for one reason or another. He made me promise that if I planned on stopping to talk to him, that I would tell him. I have talked to him every day ever since, and I don’t plan on stopping. He has been there for me every time I’ve needed someone to talk to, someone to listen, and someone to care. We can talk on the phone for HOURS, and he makes me laugh my ass off the entire time. We make fun of each other, we act retarded, and it’s simply amazing. Things that normally bother me, like when people listen to music,watch TV, or play video games while on the phone with me, don’t bother me with him. I’m peaceful when I talk to him. He never wanted sex from me. He was just there. It’s incredibly hard for me to trust people, but he gained my trust. I trust him. I have opened up to him and told him things that I’ve only shared with people I can count on one hand. I am comfortable with him, and I can be completely myself around him. He is the kind of friend I’ve always wanted. The kind that will call me out on my bullshit when I’m wrong, and be completely honest and open with me about his thoughts and feelings. No sugar coating. No beating around the bush. Just the plain, honest truth. I believe that everyone needs somebody that will stand up and tell them when they’re wrong, call them out on their bullshit, and give them their honest thoughts and opinions on even the most delicate of subjects. He’s that guy for me, and I hope he sticks around. 

Tron

I met Tron on December the 14th, and his first message to me was:

“Haha, “burst out laughing about something that happened forever ago.” That made me laugh lol because I’ve done that before too ha anyways just thought I’d tell you that”.

He was referring to my About Me section because I said that “I burst out laughing over something that happened forever ago more often than I probably should lol.” I was happy that I made somebody laugh, so I messaged him back. From there, we started having a great conversation, and I quickly realized that he is the sweetest guy I have ever met!! Seriously guys….he is SO sweet. I honestly don’t even know how he’s still single. He makes me so happy, and he really makes my day every time I talk to him. No matter how I’m feeling at the moment or the type of day I’ve had, he always finds a way to make me smile. Everything he says comes from his heart, and that kind of pure emotion is hard to find. I also think he might possibly be falling in love with me…but shhhhh! 😉 I honestly hope that we remain best friends forever, because he really is the sweetest and nicest guy I have ever met. He listens to me, he gives me advice, he makes me laugh, and I can’t help but smile every time I get a new message from him. I feel like I can tell him anything, and I trust him as well. I can even talk to him about other guys, which isn’t something most guys are willing to listen to. He deserves the most amazing girl in the world. He deserves to be happy, and I’m sure that his Mrs. Right is out there somewhere just waiting for him to come and sweep her off her feet! To truly show you just how sweet and amazing he really is, I will post below some of the messages I’ve gotten from him over the past two weeks:

“I am here for you Sunny. So long as you want me as your friend and need me around I’ll be here. Morning, day, night. If I’m sleeping, tired, happy, sad, no matter what I’ll be here and please don’t be afraid to talk to me about whatever. I may doubt myself when it comes to finding love, but everything I’ve been through, all my struggles have made me a fairly strong person. I can be your helping hand should you ever need me, even though I know you like to do it yourself….even so, I’ll be waiting for that one day you may need me….even if that day never comes.”

(FYI his nickname for me is Sunny because my username has “sunshine” in it on POF and he has been calling me Sunny ever since we met because I’m always laughing and smiling about something)

“Our friendship must be worth alot…I know it’s priceless to me.”

I asked him if me talking about other guys bothers him, and this was his response:

“How can it bother me? You’ve said you want me as your best friend, and if that’s what you want then that’s what I’m planning to be. I promise you, on my life, I only want what’s best for you Sunny.”

“I don’t wanna see anything bad happen to you Sunny, not ever. I wouldn’t know what to do.”

“I love talking to you, too sunshine. You always make me smile. You lift my spirit in ways really no one has ever done before. You really mean sooo much to me. I just try my best not to show it.”

“Can I build a home in your heart? Kinda like a safehouse?”

“You are the nicest person I’ve ever met…truly.”

The list goes on and on guys. He really is the biggest sweetheart I’ve ever met!! I’d have to stay up all night just to type out all of the sweet things, great advice, and encouraging words he has given me since we’ve met. And Tron, if you’re reading this right now, SMILE. Because you’re so incredibly special to me, and I am so lucky to have you in my life. I truly value our friendship and I hope that it never ends.

So this proves that you really can meet great guys from dating websites and that not all of them are assholes. There are good ones out there, you just have to give them a chance. You may not end up dating them, but they can become lifelong friends that are more valuable than any date you could ever go on.

Offer to be in the Adult Entertainment Industry

I’ve had my fair share of surprising messages from POF in the past couple of months that I’ve been on there, but this one has definitely got to be in my top ten. Who knew there were recruiters for the adult entertainment industry a.k.a. Porn? How exactly does one go about “recruiting” people to become porn stars? Like hey….you’re pretty hot…wanna be in Backdoor Babes Edition IV? And it surely didn’t help that the “recruiter” looked like a total creep! And his profile said he’s 20….yeah more like 2×20.

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20 years old my ass!

Here’s our creepy conversation on POF:

Wow you really are an incredibly gorgeous lady with an amazing hot look! I have a wonderful opportunity for a lady with the looks and body like you have, making good money in the adult entertainment industry. My name is Eric Johnson. I am a recruiter in the business and would love a chance to talk to you about signing up. You are smokin hot!

Ha no thanks.

Ok no problem babydoll. (Ewwwwww DON’T call me babydoll, creep!) I know this isn’t for everyone. Gotta say again though, you sure have a smokin hot sexy body!

(Btw, I only have ONE pic on POF of my whole body, in which I’m wearing a skirt and a tank top….he made it seem like I was half naked!)

Thanks.

Ever thought about becoming a model?

Not really. I don’t think I’m skinny enough or “perfect” enough to be a model.

Omg why would you say that?? You could be a super hot bikini model or lingerie model.

Ehh idk. I just don’t think I look good enough to model. And it’s expensive to get into it too, esp when there are millions of hotter girls out there.

Well I think you look amazing, gorgeous, and super hot. Would love to see you in a tiny lil bikini….would you ever consider “exotic” photography?

No not really.

Ah bummer, I would love to see you wearing nothing but a gstring. (CREEPY AS FUCK!!!!)

Wow….that’s kinda creepy.

Why’s that babe? I think you’re incredibly sexy

Thanks. But a random guy wanting to see me basically naked is just creepy. That’s one of the many reasons why I wouldn’t want to be in the adult ent industry or be an “exotic” model.

Ok sorry babe, just love the way you look.

Thanks.

He didn’t say anything after that. Thank God! That was one of the creepiest conversations I’ve ever had. And the fact that he looks like a total creep didn’t help either. I kept replying just to see what he would say, and him calling me babe just creeped me out even more. I wonder if women actually ever agree to join the adult ent industry from these so called “recruiters.” Needless to say, POF has definitely raised the bar for all the creeps out there. You’ll have to get more creative if you want to really creep me out now, because almost nothing surprises me anymore.

POF vs. OkCupid

So I made an account on OkCupid 2 days ago to check it out and see how it compares to POF. So far,I’ve noticed that the guys on there aren’t NEARLY as attractive as the ones on POF. I wanted to give it a few days before I judged,but after scrolling through a few dozen profiles,I was only attracted to maybe one or two!

I’m not sure if this is just in my area or if that’s just the way things are. Also,I got about 100 msgs the first day I joined POF. I only got 2 the first day I joined OC.

I made the profile in hopes that maybe I’ll get some more stories to write about,but nothing so far. It’s been pretty dead tbh. I probably won’t be on there much longer if things continue this way.

I’d Smash

So as I was peacefully drifting off to sleep last night around 3am ( because I couldn’t sleep), my phone vibrated informing me of a new message from POF. I was curious, so I opened it up and inside was this wonderful message:

id Smash

Now, normally, I wouldn’t reply to this sort of message, but I thought it would make for a pretty entertaining post, so here’s the rest of the conversation:

I’d hit

why don’t you bring that talk to my house and (City) and hit then pretty lady

Sure, I’ll be right over.

haha yeah, if only you were telling the truth

And if only you weren’t

i swear if you came here I would lay it to you as much as you wanted im just not able to go to (My City)

Oh what a shame. I was hoping someone would “lay it to me” tonight.

yeah it is a shame because with that attitude, you need a good laying

I’m so glad you’ve looked into my laying schedule. I’ll be sure to pencil you in for next weekend.

haha im just joking don’t get your panties up in a wad pretty lady

Oh my panties are perfectly fine. Thanks for checking though.

your welcome, so how does a girl as gorgeous as yourself end up being single

Because of guys like you.

ohhhhhh burn, someones laying on the wrong side of the bed

I didn’t bother replying after that. It was 3:22am and I was tired. I don’t know what the point of all that was, but I guess I can’t expect much more than that at 3 in the morning. My hope in online dating is slowly deteriorating. And so is my hope for mankind. I mean seriously. No punctuation. No common sense. Is this what our generation has come to? Telling random girls on a dating website that you’d “smash?” So sad.

POF Pictures

This is dedicated to all the weird profile pictures I see daily on Plenty of Fish. I mean,why guys? Why?! Keep your dead catch, booze, and shirtless torso to yourself. We don’t wanna see it in your profile pic. Or in any pic for that matter…

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This is not 2013 B.C. We don’t need your dead deer pics to prove your manly worthiness. I prefer my meat cooked and on a plate, not drenched in blood and getting held by its horns.

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This was his PROFILE pic. This was his ONLY pic. Why!?

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Okay…profile pic. Can’t see your face. You look like you’re 12. and I get the “samurai look,” but was the ripped shirt really necessary? I guess if I ever needed a 12 yr old Samurai, I’d know where to look.

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Profile pic. The ONLY pic. I guess if I ever have a booze shortage, I know who to go to. Also, how would I know if you’re the right or left guy? Not that it would really matter.

And might I add, his headline was “Chase here really bout monii know games”

Omg, your grammar kills! Nice to know you’re “bout monii”…..what the hell is monii?! I don’t think I’ve heard that one before. And remember, know games. Because someone who is “bout monii” clearly is about know games. I rest my case. 

I saved the best for last….or the worst for last?

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This is either terribly photoshopped or sadly a reality. Where is your neck?…and aside from the neck-less pic, this was his profile pic and, again, his ONLY pic. 

Also, I’d like to share with you his ” About Me” section, because his picture was not the only thing wrong with this guy:

I’m not on here to hook up, so don’t even try. (No worries there. We won’t.) I don’t play no games either!!! (Ooo, three exclamation points. He must be serious about playing “no games.” At least he doesn’t “know games” like Chase.) So if you like to play games (other than elder scrolls series) Don’t bother!! I am on here with every intention to take babes to the boneyard. (I don’t think any babes will be going to the boneyard with you tonight.) I’m a total gym rat, if you couldn’t tell by the steamy pic. (Steamy? I guess that’s one way to put it…) If that bothers you then step aside and let me do what God put me on this earth to do, twerk. ( God…please don’t ever let this man twerk.) I also focus on strengthening and toning my neck. (Ahh, there it is. That explains it. Except…you seem to be missing the neck part.) The abs,those are included in the package. (I guess the neck didn’t fit in the package.) I have a down-blouse photo upon request. Boobs. (Nice touch at the end there. Real mature. I’m sure that’ll get the ladies swarming all over you.)

That’s all from my daily dose of POF tonight. And FYI guys, shirtless pics SCREAM douchebag! Don’t do it. If a girl wants to see you shirtless, she’ll let you know. 

 

Welcome to Lifetastic Saturdays!

As my very first blog entry, I’d like to welcome you to Lifetastic Saturdays!

I named my blog Lifetastic Saturdays because I think life is fantastic, and Saturday is my favorite day of the week.I mean, who doesn’t love Saturdays?!

This blog will be all about my life and experiences. My personal thoughts and feelings on subjects such as sex, college, friends, family, dating, and everything inbetween.  Think of it as Sex in the City meets Awkward from MTV. Uncensored and as real as it gets.

I’d like to remain anonymous, since I will be sharing very intimate details about  my thoughts, feelings, and life in general, but I will tell you a little bit about myself.

I’m in my second year of college. Business Administration major. I work at a kids play center. I am on the dating website Plenty of Fish, or POF for short. I love reading blogs about dating, relationships, and anything that I can get a good laugh out of, so if you have a blog, definitely link me to it! I’d love to check it out! I also have a beauty blog, and I love watching videos and writing about anything related to beauty. 

That’s as much as I’m willing to give away so far, but stick around and you’ll soon learn alot more than you probably want to know! 😉