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Bye Bye, POF!

I deleted my Plenty of Fish profile last night.

I feel like I found everything I was looking for and so much more. I no longer felt the need to keep it.

I made 2 best friends from the site. I met alot of different guys. I went on a few dates. One was GREAT! The others, not so much. The profile has completely and fully served its purpose. I wanted to see what else is out there, apart from my small little world. And I did. I met alot of interesting people, some creepy ones, and some that just downright disgusted me.

I even met a guy. A guy that will hopefully soon be my boyfriend…but I don’t want to jinx it. So you shall hear more about him within the next month or so. He is one of the main reasons why I deleted my profile.

I kept on getting at least 10 messages from guys every day, and I never replied to them anymore. I didn’t see the point. I found a guy that I want to be with. I made 2 best friends. What’s the point of going on more dates or meeting more people? I already have everything I want and more.

So goodbye POF. I won’t be needing you anymore. It was fun while it lasted. Thank you for all the experiences, entertaining conversations, and interesting people I’ve met. I would definitely recommend this site to anyone. Try it out. And my best piece of advice would be:

Give the guys a chance!

I would’ve never found my two best friends if I hadn’t replied to their messages, despite the fact that I wasn’t attracted to them. I know that online dating is a lot of window shopping, but try not to be so shallow. That guy that made you laugh or intrigued you with his profile, but wasn’t the best looking guy in the world. Give him a chance. What’s the worst that can happen?

POF vs. OkCupid

So I made an account on OkCupid 2 days ago to check it out and see how it compares to POF. So far,I’ve noticed that the guys on there aren’t NEARLY as attractive as the ones on POF. I wanted to give it a few days before I judged,but after scrolling through a few dozen profiles,I was only attracted to maybe one or two!

I’m not sure if this is just in my area or if that’s just the way things are. Also,I got about 100 msgs the first day I joined POF. I only got 2 the first day I joined OC.

I made the profile in hopes that maybe I’ll get some more stories to write about,but nothing so far. It’s been pretty dead tbh. I probably won’t be on there much longer if things continue this way.